Kailyn Lowry Shares Why She Just Developed a Strategy for Dealing With Internet Trolls

Haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate, but Kailyn Lowry has finally mastered the art of shaking it off. 

While the Teen Mom alum may feel that she's barely famous (hence the name of her third podcast that she launched in 2022), she's had to face off with an Internet troll or two in the 14 years since she made her MTV debut. 

And in the past, she admitted during an exclusive interview with E! News, "I would say it doesn't bother me, but it absolutely did. I was absolutely still looking. I was reading the comments. I was checking up on the troll pages." 

Until one day she just decided to log off. 

"Now I just don't care," insisted the 32-year-old. "I don't want to see it."

Embracing the DGAF attitude people talk about achieving in their thirties, she continued, "I realize that everyone has skeletons, everyone has things that they don't want the public to know, everyone is messing up sometimes. And so I just humanize everyone. And if people don't want to humanize me, I don't want any part in it, because you clearly see from a completely different lens than I do."

Though she acknowledges it took her a minute for her to reach this particular point of view. 

"I just wish that I really committed to it sooner," admitted Lowry. While she's been spouting off her see-no-evil, know-no-evil advice for years, "It has only been the last two years that I've actually listened."

It's not as if she needs to add to the chaos that comes with raising seven kids—she shares Isaac, 14, with high school boyfriend Jo Rivera, Lincoln, 10, with former husband Javi Marroquin, Lux, 7, and Creed, 4, with ex Chris Lopez, and 22-month-old son Rio and 11-month-old twins Valley and Verse with fiancé Elijah Scott—and helming three podcasts, plus The KILLR Podcast Network she launched in 2021. 

Her secrets to crushing it include putting everything into her phone—though she cops to the occasional mixup, like the one that had her rushing off to her kids' wrestling practice mere minutes after returning home from the first of her Barely F*ck$ing Touring shows—and scheduling the bulk of her work during the school day. 

"Sometimes I'll end up back in my home office once the kids are in bed," the Delaware resident acknowledged of her neverending schedule, "but I'm okay with that, because, like I said, I thrive in chaos, and so if it means I'm sleeping for two hours, it's fine. I'll get it done somehow, someway."

And while she admittedly struggles to give herself credit for all she's accomplished ("I'm always looking at all of the things I still need to do, all of the growth that I still need to make and where am I falling short?" acknowledged the New York Times bestselling author. "I think it's ingrained in us as moms"), she has no issues pumping up her fiancé. 

"I don't know how Elijah just seamlessly folded into this chaos and he handles it so well," Lowry shared. "I think he was like, 'OK, if we're going to make this work, I'm just going to do it, no questions asked and just figure it out as we go.'" 

It helps that they're "polar opposites," added Lowry of the construction worker. "So when I'm having frantic moments or concerned about things, he's very cool, calm and collected. It's a really good balance. And my kids absolutely love him. So that also is a huge, huge, huge help." 

Because raising seven kids can be hard, y'all. 

"We all have the moments where we're overwhelmed and it's like, I just need that extra person," Lowry explained. "And I truly hope that any single parent that is struggling with that, your time is going to come, you're going to meet someone that is going to come and be your person."

Of course she's not the only Teen Mom alum who's found her ideal costar. Keep reading to see how the rest of her former castmates are faring when it comes to love. 

Viewers watched Catelynn Lowell and now-husband Tyler Baltierra make the difficult choice to place their first daughter, Carly, for adoption, in 2009 on the inaugural season of 16 and Pregnant. After 13 years together, the fan-favorite couple wed in August 2015 and have since had three more daughters: Novalee, Vaeda and Rya.

While the absence of Carly—who lives with her adoptive parents, Brandon and Teresa Davis—still aches, the couple live for their meetups.

"The girls love her," Catelynn told E! News of her younger daughters' reaction to Carly. "It's pretty awesome to be able to witness it. And we're blessed that we do have an open adoption to be able to witness it. It's truly a blessing to be able to watch all of these things over the years."

Together less than six months when she got pregnant, viewers saw Maci Bookout struggle with an irresponsible Ryan Edwards on 16 and Pregnant. Though they got engaged, the high school sweethearts split less than a year after their son Bentley was born in 2008.

These days they're focused on building a co-parenting relationship. "We're in a good place," Maci revealed to E! News in 2023, adding that Ryan is showing up "more consistently now than maybe he ever has before."

Maci found her forever teammate in Texan Taylor McKinney in 2012 and the pair soon began building up their squad. They welcomed daughter Jayde in May 2015 and son Maverick a year later, then wed in Florida that October. 

Partners in parenting, life and their TTM Lifestyle fashion brand, "He's just my person," she told E! News in 2023. "Even when we've had a rough year together, I think at the end of the day, I still choose him. I like him. And even if I want to punch him in the face sometimes, I'd rather argue with him or have a rough patch with him than never have a rough patch with anybody else." 

Despite moving on with new significant others, the MTV stars, who connected while filming The Challenge, continue to co-parent their daughter Ryder together.

"Our biggest thing since day one of Cory coming into Ryder's life was what kind of dad he wanted to be and what kind of parent he wanted to be," Cheyenne explained to E! News in March 2020. "I wasn't going to allow him to be a Disneyland dad or an Instagram dad or just in the moment. He had to be 100 percent. I think from the beginning, he saw my mindset and appreciated it so that's why we co-parent so well."

After their romance ended in 2018, the pair decided to give their relationship a second chance. While celebrating her 28th birthday, Cheyenne confirmed on Instagram that she was back with Zach. In May 2021, the couple welcomed their first child together, son Ace, and got married in September 2022. 

"We spent the past two years knocking things off our list," Cheyenne told E! News in 2024. "We wanted to have a baby, we had Ace. We wanted to get married, we had our wedding. We wanted to buy a house, we bought our house."

And now, she continued, "I don't want to do anything. I don't want to set a goal. I want to sit down. I want to be really still. My goal is to be still and just to be happy with where we're at. And just to like each other. That's it. I want nothing else."

Connecting while filming Ex on the Beach may not sound like the start of a love story, but several years and two kids—daughters Mila and Maya—later, Cory and Are You the One? alum Taylor Selfridge are still making waves. 

"We just bought a house," he shared with E! News in 2023, before bringing up that, yes, he's aware that people want to know when they're getting married. "It's definitely being talked about. We have everything but the ring and me just letting her know. Taylor deserves that and it's something that I want and she wants. Right now we're just taking steps to get there."

Testing the limits of for-better-or-for-worse, Ryan checked into rehab not long after he married Mackenzie Standifer in May 2017, with her giving birth to their first son Jagger in 2018 while Ryan was still in treatment.

Though the pair would welcome daughter Stella in January 2020, Mackenzie filed for divorce three years later. 

While their very contentious romance came to an end for good in 2013, the couple have since worked out a way to co-parent their now-teenage daughter Leah. 

"We have fun together but at a distance," Amber told E! News in January 2022. "But our relationship is good. It's a family now so we treat it as a family more than anything else." 

After several years together, a proposal and one unsuccessful stint on Marriage Boot Camp, Amber and Boston transplant Matt Baier called off their engagement in 2017. 

"Honestly, you just get to a point when you're done hearing things and you just start to not care in a relationship and I think that's what started happening to me and him," Amber revealed on Dr. Drew Pinsky's podcast later that year. "I started not to care anymore about the relationship like you should. I put a wall up so I wouldn't get hurt again pretty much."

Amber did find love while filming Marriage Boot Camp—connecting with crew member Andrew Glennon while on set. The pair made their debut as a couple at the 2017 MTV Movie Awards and in May 2018, Amber gave birth to the couple's first child, James.

But the couple separated not long after Amber was arrested for domestic battery in July 2019. And after a contentious court battle, California native Andrew was awarded sole legal and primary physical custody of their son in 2022. 

"I've worked so hard to better myself and improve my relationships with my children," the Teen Mom star told E! News at the time. "While I've always been candid about my past substance abuse and struggles with mental illness, a person should have the chance to redeem themselves and not be tethered to their problems from the past."

Determined not to give up, she added, "If your road has not been perfect, but you've worked hard to become a better, more stable and caring person today, keep moving forward as I will. I'll never stop fighting for my children who I love more than anything."

After meeting Amber on the Internet, Dimitri Garcia made his Teen Mom OG debut in April 2020. "Dimitri is from Belgium. He's 39 so he's 10 years older than me. But he's a very handsome man," Amber shared on the show. "I started opening up to him and we decided we should meet since we like each other."

In April 2021, Amber revealed on the Teen Mom OG reunion special that she was still dating Dimitri. "We've known each other now for 18 months," she explained. "But I haven't seen him in a year though." Though the pair never officially announced a split, Amber introduced new flame Gary Wayt during a June 2024 episode of Teen Mom: The Next Chapter.

After Amber connected with Gary 2.0 on a dating app in the fall of 2023, he zoomed into the picture when the Teen Mom vet introduced him to her castmates during a virtual chat. 

Though he proposed in May 2024, their betrothal was short-lived. While in North Carolina for her brother's wedding that June, Gary ran off after the pair had a fight, leading Amber to report him as missing. 

And while Gary was soon located, the duo's engagment wasn't the only thing left broken. 

"I've had to deal with thinking my fiancé was dead for three to four days," Amber said on Teen Mom: The Next Chapter. "I had to deal with literally grieving and trying to make sense of why the f--k would somebody do this to me. I am going through something right now."

"This man broke me," she continued. "I was stable. Right now, this is the first time in years in my life I am not f--king right because a man put a ring on my finger." 

Months after Gary and now-wife Kristina Anderson welcomed daughter Emilee in April 2015, they wed in a sweet beach ceremony. 

"You are one of the most beautiful souls I know," Gary wrote in a 2022 Instagram post. "I don’t know how I would do this without you."

The father of Farrah Abraham's daughter Sophia died in an accident two months prior to her birth in December 2008.

For her first serious relationship since the death of her high school boyfriend, Farrah dated real estate agent Simon Saran on and off for over two years.

Though their 2017 split got ugly (as in cease-and-desist ugly), the two gave a stab at trying to remain friends. Sorta.

"I have no hard feelings against Farrah," Simon told E! News at the time. "We are just from two different worlds. She likes the fake life, I want what's real. I wish the best for her and much success in all of her future endeavors."

Jenelle Evans and Andrew Lewis, parents to now-teenage Jace, split not long after his 2009 birth, with the model having no involvement in his son's life. 

“I do feel bad because that’s Jace's dad," Jenelle reflected on a 2019 episode of Teen Mom 2. "But I know how he is, and I don’t want him to disappoint my son. I don’t want [him] to pop back in and then pop back out."

After a one-year marriage to Courtland Rogers, and having her second child, Kaiser, with ex-boyfriend Nathan Griffin in 2014, Jenelle wed David Eason on their North Carolina property in September 2017, eight months after they welcomed their daughter Ensley.

After a particularly rocky stretch saw David charged with a child abuse misdemeanor involving Jace (at the time, Jenelle likened it to a "smear campaign"), Jenelle revealed they had separated. "I would've skipped straight to divorce but I couldn't because in the state of North Carolina, you have to be legally separated for a year," she explained on social media, "and you have to prove you have two separate addresses."

Remember the charmer who asked then-girlfriend Chelsea Houska when he could "sign the papers over for that mistake"?

Completely in the rearview. 

Against all odds, the Teen Mom star-turned-HGTV personality has a somewhat copacetic relationship with her high school ex Adam Lind, mom to her eldest daughter Aubree. “There’s no bad vibes and it’s just a very open relationship," she told Us Weekly. "There’s no bad feelings. We see him sometimes and it’s totally fine."

What began as a meet-cute at a gas station in 2014 became forever when the pair wed in October 2016. After welcoming son Watson in 2017 and daughters Layne and Walker in 2018 and 2021, respectively, the pair launched a new joint project: Their HGTV series Down Home Fab. 

"If we were going to come back to TV, I wanted it to be something lighthearted, feel good and be able to show our authentic selves," Chelsea explained to E! News, sharing why this move felt "so right." As she put it, "This was just such a cool opportunity to do that."

Though then-high schooler Leah Messer and Corey Simms fought to turn their friendship into a forever family, the parents to now-teenage twins Aleeah and Aliannah filed for divorce six months after their October 2010 wedding. 

Corey has been married to Miranda Patterson since 2013.

Leah went on to wed pipeliner Jeremy Calvert in 2012, the couple welcoming daughter Adalynn the next year.

Though they split in 2015, they have made an effort to co-parent their daughter with sometimes mixed results. "I'm looking at a complete, better version of myself," Leah told E! News of her girls. "And seeing everything that they love and enjoy doing, and being able to support them in their lives and be a part of it is magical. I love it. I love being a mom, especially a girl mama."

By the time Leah went Instagram official with Jaylan Mobley in 2021, the United States Army officer had already charmed her and her daughters. 

The couple announced their engagement in August 2022, but broke up that October. 

"I needed that breakup," the Teen Mom star confessed to E! News a year later. "I've learned a lot from my last breakup and, moving forward, I do feel like my life is just beginning." 

Kailyn Lowry was just 17 when she and high school boyfriend Jo Rivera welcomed their eldest son, Isaac, in 2010.

And though they split a year later, they've since settled into a comfortable co-parenting arrangement, Kailyn even hosting her Baby Mamas No Drama podcast with Jo's wife Vee Torres. "We’ve come a long way since we were 18," Kailyn wrote on X after attending Jo and Vee's 2018 wedding. "I couldn’t ask for a better stepmom for isaac." 

Kailyn's second son Lincoln joined the squad in November 2013, roughly a year after the then-star of Teen Mom 2 wed his father Javi Marroquin. 

Splitting in late 2016, their relationship has been rocky at times, with Javi and girlfriend Lauren Comeau—already parents to son Eli—announcing in December 2023 that they were expecting their second child together, a girl.  

Though Kailyn welcomed sons Lux and Creed with boyfriend Chris Lopez during their on-and-off romance, they eventually called it quits for good. 

"Right now, we don't communicate at all," she revealed to E! News in 2020. "I'm hoping that it will get better with time but I don't have a big vision. I don't have anything negative to say. I hope for our kids that everything works itself out in whatever direction that may be." 

With current partner Elijah Scott, Kailyn finally feels she has a strong foundation. "It's been very different from my other partners and my kids' other dads," she told People of Elijah, dad to her son Rio and twins Verse and Valley. "He pours concrete, he gets down and dirty at work. But he's also just a real family man. He's very, very much connected with his own family, with our family, and so he's been a really good partner to me, and I feel like it's a really good match."

A strong enough one that she finally said yes to one of his many proposals, in fact. 

"He asked me to marry him several times and I never said no," Kailyn insisted to E! News in September 2024 of her neighbor-turned-life partner. "I was just like, 'Yes, but not right now.'" 

And though she acknowledged that the construction worker "definitely changed my stance on marriage," she's not exactly rushing out to buy a white dress. Joked Kailyn, "How soon we get married depends on the day that you ask me now." 

Though Indiana-based Jade Cline and Sean Austin had more than their share of ups and down since welcoming daughter Kloie in 2017, in January 2022 Jade teased to fans that they were on the rise. 

"There were some major, major things that happened with our lives and major improvements that happen with Sean's life as well and with his future," she told E! News. "I'm really proud of him and where we are today." Eight months later, the pair announced their engagement, marrying in October 2023. 

"I know for sure my relationship isn't always perfect," Jade told E! News in 2024. "But we love each other and we make it work."

California natives Ashley Jones and Bar Smith privately wed in 2021—four years after they welcomed daughter Holly.

But after calling off their romance several times, Ashley officially filed for divorce in 2024. 

Years after 16 and Pregnant star Briana DeJesus and Devoin Austin II welcomed their daughter Nova in 2011, they flirted with giving their romance another shot. 

These days, however, Briana told E! News in 2024, "I want a man man, I don't want a little boy that I've been so used to dating back in the past."

After starring on the single season of Teen Mom 3, Briana joined the cast of Teen Mom 2 in its eighth season, and gave birth to her second daughter, Stella, with ex-boyfriend Luis Miguel, on July 2017.

Since then, Luis' involvement has been spotty at best. "I think he wants a family with me," Briana explained to Dr. Drew in a December 2019 Teen Mom 2 episode, "and since I'm not giving that to him, he just wants to stay away completely."